The WRONG Way To Feel Your Feelings!

Here’s the wrong way to feel your feelings: “Okay. I’m feeling overwhelmed and it feels like my thoughts are spinning and I can’t catch them. And it feels like there’s just too much to do. And that I’m too stupid to figure out what...

Exercise For More ADHD Motivation!

Exercise for more ADHD motivation! Challenge your “not” thoughts!! If you are feeling stuck and not taking action, I have an exercise for you that will change your life. What I want you to do is go into your mind and find all of the “not” thoughts that you...

Are You Giving Up Your Power?

ARE YOU GIVING UP YOUR POWER? Irritation is a sign you ARE! “But Jessica, sometimes there are situations that I’m really powerless to change.” No, no, no, no, no, no. No. You always have power. First off, are you a child of the omnipotent omniscient...

ADHD Irritability

Irritability is anger’s socially acceptable little sister, the one that got the tiny waist, the Barbie doll hair, and the scholarship to play two sports at a state university. Like anger, irritability is about a boundary violation. Also like anger, irritability...

Wait… Is My Goal Just Not God’s Will?

If you’ve been believing that you can achieve something by God’s power and you’ve been taking steps, so many steps, to achieve it, but nothing is happening, does that mean that it’s not God’s will? Possibly, but here’s what it might...

Believing you can’t = Believing God can’t

Believing you cannot do something is the same as believing God cannot do it. Hear me out. The world wants to tell us that everything we do, we do by our power and stick-with-it-ness and badassery. And if you’re a Bible-believing Christian, you want to avoid that...

Want More Success? You Need More Wanting!

If you want more success, then what you need is more wanting. Bear with me. A lot of us with adult ADHD have trained ourselves to want less and less because it is so painfully disappointing to not achieve success after we decided we wanted something. But the problem...